Balancing work and childcare in todays economy
For many families in today’s economy, balancing work and childcare has become one of the most difficult challenges parents face. Rising childcare costs and limited financial assistance programs have forced many parents to make tough decisions about their careers, income, and family responsibilities. According to a report from care.com families spend an average of 27% of their household income on childcare, which is significantly higher than the 7% that the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services considers affordablehttps://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20230613495283/en/New-Care.com-Report-Reveals-Soaring-Childcare-Costs-Are-Crippling-Majority-of-American-Families? his financial strain has left many parents struggling to maintain full-time work while ensuring their children receive safe and reliable care.
During my reporting, I spoke with Towanna Bridges Oats, the operations manager for First Steps Childcare Center in Covington, Georgia. Oats explained that her center accepts the government’s CAPS (Childcare and Parent Services) program, which helps many working families pay for childcare expenses. The CAPS program provides financial assistance to eligible families, allowing parents to remain employed while ensuring their children receive safe and reliable care. However, not every parent qualifies for assistance, creating challenges for many families who still struggle to afford childcare despite working full-time. Oats said she understands the difficulties families face when they fall outside the program’s eligibility requirements. Many working parents earn too much to qualify for assistance but not enough to comfortably pay the high cost of childcare. As a result, some families are forced to make difficult decisions regarding employment, work schedules, and childcare arrangements. “We do our best to accommodate parents,” Oats explained. “If they don’t qualify for CAPS, we may offer short-term days of care or a customized program that fits their situation.” According to Oats, flexibility has become increasingly important in the childcare industry. Families often have unique circumstances, including nontraditional work schedules, temporary financial hardships, or unexpected life events. By working with parents individually, childcare providers can help reduce stress and support family stability. Research supports the importance of childcare assistance programs. Studies have found that childcare subsidies can increase employment opportunities for parents by making childcare more affordable and accessible. Families receiving subsidies are more likely to maintain employment and experience greater economic stability than families without assistance. Additionally, affordable childcare allows parents to focus on their careers while ensuring their children are placed in structured learning environments that support early development. Oats’ efforts reflect a broader trend among childcare providers who are adapting to the financial realities facing working families. Many centers are exploring flexible schedules, part-time enrollment options, and customized care plans to meet the needs of parents. These strategies are becoming increasingly important as childcare costs continue to rise nationwide. Recent reports indicate that inadequate or unaffordable childcare can cause parents to reduce work hours, decline promotions, or leave the workforce entirely. The impact extends beyond individual families. Reliable childcare contributes to workforce participation and local economic growth. When parents have access to affordable childcare, they are better able to maintain employment and contribute to their communities. Researchers have found that childcare subsidies can significantly improve labor force participation among mothers and working families. Oats emphasized that childcare providers often serve as partners with families rather than simply caregivers. Providers help parents navigate challenges, locate resources, and create solutions that allow children to receive quality care while parents remain employed. At First Steps Childcare Center, this commitment to flexibility and support has become a key part of serving the community. As childcare costs continue to rise and demand for services increases, providers like Oats are working to bridge the gap for families who may not qualify for assistance but still face financial hardship. Through personalized care plans, flexible scheduling, and a willingness to work with parents, childcare centers can help families remain employed while ensuring children receive the care and educational support they need to succeed. References Blau, D., & Tekin, E. (2003). The determinants and consequences of child care subsidies for single mothers. National Bureau of Economic Research. Brooks, F. (2002). Impacts of child care subsidies on family and child well-being. Early Childhood Research Quarterly, 17(4), 498–511. Forry, N. D. (2009). The impact of child care subsidies on low-income single parents: An examination of child care expenditures and employment disruptions News reports across the country show that childcare costs are not only affecting family budgets but also influencing parents’ decisions about work. In fact, rising childcare costs are forcing many parents, particularly mothers, to reduce their working hours or leave the workforce entirely. I also came across Sherell Rodgers, a mother and grandmother who understands this struggle firsthand. Rodgers shared that the cost of childcare has made it difficult for her to decide whether working full time is even worth it. Like many parents, she has had to consider cutting back her work hours in order to manage childcare responsibilities.https://fortune.com/2024/10/03/spiking-childcare-costs-forcing-mothers-work-fewer-hours-or-none/? Rodgers’ experience highlights a common reality for many families today. Parents are often forced to weigh the financial benefits of working against the high cost of childcare. As childcare costs continue to rise, many parents are looking for creative solutions, while childcare providers like Towanna Bridges Oats are trying to adapt and support families the best they can. However, until childcare becomes more affordable and accessible, many working parents will continue to face the difficult balance between earning a living and caring for their children. Her approach reflects a growing trend among childcare providers who are trying to adapt to the financial realities families face. Some centers are adjusting schedules, offering flexible hours, or creating alternative care options to help working parents maintain employment. News reports across the country show that childcare costs are not only affecting family budgets but also influencing parents’ decisions about work. In fact, rising childcare costs are forcing many parents, particularly mothers, to reduce their working hours or leave the workforce entirely.
I recently had the opportunity to interview Nicole Pressley, a hardworking mother who currently works about 30 hours a week. Our conversation centered around welfare-to-work programs, daycare benefits, and the difficult financial decisions many working families face when they fall into the gap between earning “too much” to qualify for help and not earning enough to truly get by. During our interview, Nicole explained that she has applied for assistance programs, hoping to receive support with food and childcare. However, because of her work hours and the child support she receives, she does not qualify for food stamps or childcare services. On paper, it may look like she earns enough. In reality, her income barely stretches across her monthly responsibilities. Like many working parents, Nicole’s biggest financial strain is childcare. She also has to cover rent, car insurance, and everyday living expenses. Without assistance, daycare alone consumes a significant portion of her income. This has placed her in an incredibly difficult position. She shared that she may have to reduce her hours or quit working altogether and rely solely on her partner’s income, simply because she can no longer afford daycare while trying to keep up with everything else. Nicole expressed that even partial childcare assistance would make a life-changing difference. She believes that if she could just get help covering daycare costs, it would close the financial gap that keeps her constantly falling behind. That single form of support could help her stay employed, remain independent, and keep her household stable month to month.
I filmed this interview in Stockbridge, where Nicole took a few moments after we wrapped to chat briefly with a coworker during her break. It was a short but genuine moment of joy — a quick laugh and conversation before she had to clock back in to finish her six-hour shift. That moment reflected something powerful: even under stress and uncertainty, small pockets of connection and happiness still matter. Nicole’s story highlights a reality many families experience — working hard, yet still struggling to stay afloat without support systems that meet them where they are.
